From the past to present, Men and women were created for love, so they can be getting married. Most people think carefully before they get marriage. Nevertheless, some couples are unable to keep their good relationship, or they lose their love for each other; therefore they choose divorce. In the past, there were a few divorces because there were not many problems like in these days. Rising divorce rates today has been resulted from long list causes such as cheating, sex, different thinking, job, lack communication, financial problems. Today, a lot of children have to stay between the breakup of their parent's marriage. They don’t know whom they want to live with, and they ...view middle of the document...
The men always try to find good ways, and if the women can understand and share their thinking, their feelings that is easier to solve those arguments. Moreover, when they want to buy something for their house such as furniture, car, or TV. The women often want to buy beautiful thing and don’t care about the price, but the men have different thinking that they want to buy something have more benefits. If the couples could make concessions and make a good decision, if not, they would have
second is infidelity. The main reason often occurs from a man because he goes to work and leave his wife to look after their home and child. He goes to work that means he has a chance to meet other women. Some men not only just talk with other women but have the affairs with those women. Moreover, they may have children outside marriage. In addition, some men may infect the veneral diseases from their paramours. This problem can lead to the divorce of a couple.
third is the domestic violence. This trouble is very terrible. When the couple has not yet married, they will not know the real character of his or her partner but after they get married, they will know what the truth is. The truth that I mean is violence. Suppose, a man or a woman like to use it, but his or her partner does not like and cannot bear with that violence. Thus, it causes the divorce problem.
I think it mentally affected my husband. He tries to avoid the topic of his parents divorce and he just holds it all in instead of talking about it. It was really hard on him not seeing his dad as much and always having one parent talk bad about the other parent. He always says that he will never get a divorce and put his children through the pain that he went through. Now that he is older he does understand it better now and he sees that there are positive effects to a divorce too. It is better to be from a broken home than to live in one. Now his parents are both remarried and happy.
After his parents divorced they both remarried and had children. I think this was really hard on my husband because he felt left out. His parents had new children that were getting all the attention and being spoiled. His parents did not have much money when he was little, so he didn't have nice things like his...